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Groomsmen Gift Ideas They Will Actually Use
Hannah Brooks·5 min read
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Groomsmen Gifts They Actually Want
Every groomsman has a drawer with a monogrammed something in it. We looked at why some gifts get used for years and others are forgotten by the honeymoon, and what that means for choosing one.
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Ask a married man what he got as a groomsman and there is a fair chance he will have to think about it. Ask him where it is now and the answer is often a shrug toward a drawer. The groomsmen gift industry runs on products that photograph well on the day: engraved flasks, wooden boxes, decanters, beer mugs with a date on them. They make a nice table display at the rehearsal dinner. Most of them are never used again.
This guide works the other way round. It starts from what men keep and use, and works back to what that means for choosing a gift. If you want a straightforward list of ideas with prices, our groomsmen gift ideas does that. This is the argument behind the list.
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Why most groomsmen gifts get binned
The gifts that disappear share a few traits, and none of them is price. A $90 decanter goes unused as reliably as a $15 bottle opener.
They ask for a new habit
A flask presumes he carries spirits. A decanter presumes he decants. A cigar cutter presumes cigars. Each one asks a man to change how he lives in order to use the gift, and very few men do. The gifts that last replace something he already uses every day.
They carry the wedding on them
A date, the couple's names, "Groomsman" in script. These make sense on the day and become awkward anywhere else. Nobody wants to explain a mug with someone else's wedding date on it at the office. Initials are fine; a date usually is not.
They were chosen in bulk
Six identical gifts chosen for six different men will suit perhaps three of them. The others receive something that fits the groom's taste rather than their own.
They are novelty, not quality
A cheap version of a useful object is worse than nothing, because it is replaced the first time it fails. A well made basic is kept for years.
The four tests a kept gift passes
Turn those failures around and you get a short checklist. A gift that passes all four will almost certainly be used.
- Daily use. It replaces or upgrades something he already carries, wears or uses.
- No date. It works the same on a Tuesday in March as it did at the wedding.
- His choice inside your choice. You pick the product; he picks the color, size or variant.
- Built to last. Steel, leather, good fabric. Nothing that peels, chips or fades in a season.
| Gift | Daily use | No date | His choice | Lasts |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Steel watch, dial color chosen by him | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Leather wallet | Yes | Yes | Sometimes | Yes |
| Engraved flask | No | Often not | No | Yes |
| Whiskey stones and glass set | Rarely | Yes | No | Yes |
| Novelty socks | Once | Yes | No | No |
| Monogrammed beer mug | Rarely | No | No | Yes |
A wallet is the other strong candidate, and for a man who already owns a watch he loves, it may be the better gift. The weakness is that wallets are personal in ways that are hard to guess: card count, bifold or slim, cash or no cash.
Why a watch passes, if you let him choose
A watch is worn daily, it has no date on it, and it is made of materials that last. The fourth test is where many groomsmen watch sets fail: six identical watches chosen by the groom. The fix is simple. Choose a model, then let each man pick his own dial color. Lucky Fours sells buy one, get one free with mix and match, which means the set can include different colors and even different models without changing the price per pair. Pick the model with the most variety for a varied party.
Matching the watch to the man matters more than matching the watches to each other. Three types come up in almost every wedding party.
The one who dresses in black
The Lucky Fours Ronin is an all black chronograph on a black bracelet with a moonphase style subdial, at $79.99. It suits a wardrobe of black tees and dark jackets, and it looks deliberate rather than gloomy. There are 11 colorways, including silver cases with colored dials if one man in the party wants the same watch in a lighter mood.
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The car enthusiast
Racing chronographs, with a tachymeter scale on the bezel and contrasting subdials, have been tied to motor sport since the 1960s. The Lucky Fours Vantage at $129.99 has the classic version: a black tachymeter bezel, a white panda dial with black subdials, and a steel bracelet. For the full field of affordable options see our racing chronograph guide.
The practical one
Some men want a watch that tells the time clearly and nothing else. For them, a well known field watch is the honest pick: the Timex Expedition Scout 40mm at $95 has a 40mm case, a clear Arabic numeral dial and a fabric strap that needs no sizing. It is plainer than anything above, and for the right man that is exactly why he will wear it.
What to do with the rest of the budget
If a watch for each man leaves money over, spend it on the day, not on a second object. A good dinner the night before, a round of drinks the groomsmen did not have to pay for, or the bachelor party transport: these are remembered in a way a second gift is not. And if the budget is tighter than a watch per man, a wallet or a wash bag passes the same tests at a lower price.
Whatever you buy, give it early enough to fix a fit problem. A steel bracelet is shortened by removing links, which a jeweler does in minutes, and the store's shipping times and return terms are worth reading before you order rather than after. If you are buying for the whole party, our guide to buying a set covers the logistics.
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Frequently Asked Questions
What groomsmen gifts do men actually use?
Things that replace something they already use daily: a watch, a wallet, a wash bag, a good knife. Gifts that ask a man to adopt a new habit, such as a flask or a decanter set, are the ones most often unused.
Are engraved groomsmen gifts a bad idea?
Not always, but a wedding date or a slogan narrows where the gift can be used. Initials on a quality item are fine. If personalization matters to you, confirm what the seller offers before ordering rather than assuming it is available.
Should groomsmen choose their own gift?
Letting each man choose within a single product, such as a dial color, gets the best of both. The gift still matches across the party, but each man ends up with the version he would have bought himself.
What is a good groomsmen watch for men who do not wear watches?
Something simple and light with a clear dial. A minimalist steel watch or a fabric strap casual watch is easier to adopt than a large chronograph. Our guide to groomsmen watches lists the options by budget.
About the Author
Daniel Reyes
Daniel Reyes covers men's sports and everyday watches for WatchesUnder, mostly at the under $200 end of the market: what a watch costs, what it compares to, and whether the price holds up against the alternatives. Prices in his guides are checked against each brand's own website.
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